What do people actually experience in the moments they describe as being seen or met?
Intimacy as an interpersonal process: The importance of self-disclosure, partner disclosure, and perceived partner responsiveness in interpersonal exchanges.
Adjacent
Two diary studies linked disclosure and feeling that a partner responded with understanding to greater intimacy, with emotional disclosure more strongly linked than factual disclosure.
What it doesn’t show
Participants supplied all ratings, including their view of the partner’s behaviour. The associations within everyday encounters do not establish which factor caused another or independently verify how responsive the partner was. The analysed samples were students.
Summary based on the abstract and the author-hosted full text’s methods and results.
Directions that build on it
- What being met is like
- Transfer beyond the room
Does closeness built in a circle carry into people’s existing relationships?
Links
Cite
Laurenceau, J.-P., Barrett, L. F., & Pietromonaco, P. R. (1998). Intimacy as an interpersonal process: The importance of self-disclosure, partner disclosure, and perceived partner responsiveness in interpersonal exchanges. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 74(5), 1238–1251. https://doi.org/10.1037/0022-3514.74.5.1238