The neural bases of feeling understood and not understood

Sylvia A. Morelli, Jared B. Torre and Naomi I. Eisenberger · 2014

A brain-imaging experiment found different activity patterns when people felt understood or misunderstood, alongside differences in how much they liked the supposed listener.

What it doesn’t show

Only 19 participants contributed usable scans. The feedback was scripted rather than another person’s actual response, and understanding overlapped with validation. The study does not identify a diagnostic brain signature or establish lasting benefits from feeling understood.

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  1. What being met is like

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    What do people actually experience in the moments they describe as being seen or met?

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Morelli, S. A., Torre, J. B., & Eisenberger, N. I. (2014). The neural bases of feeling understood and not understood. Social Cognitive and Affective Neuroscience, 9(12), 1890–1896. https://doi.org/10.1093/scan/nst191