Overly shallow?: Miscalibrated expectations create a barrier to deeper conversation.
Adjacent
Across twelve experiments, people expected deeper conversations to be more awkward and less rewarding than they turned out to be.
What it doesn’t show
The studies mainly concern structured encounters with unfamiliar people. They do not establish that more disclosure is always better, that it is welcome in every setting, or that a brief conversation produces lasting closeness.
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Kardas, M., Kumar, A., & Epley, N. (2022). Overly shallow?: Miscalibrated expectations create a barrier to deeper conversation. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 122(3), 367–398. https://doi.org/10.1037/pspa0000281