Beautiful mess effect: Self–other differences in evaluation of showing vulnerability.
Adjacent
Seven studies found that people often judged their own displays of vulnerability more negatively than observers judged comparable displays by others.
What it doesn’t show
The studies include imagined situations as well as an actual display of vulnerability. Average differences in evaluation do not establish that disclosure will be safe, welcomed or beneficial with a particular audience.
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Bruk, A., Scholl, S. G., & Bless, H. (2018). Beautiful mess effect: Self–other differences in evaluation of showing vulnerability. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 115(2), 192–205. https://doi.org/10.1037/pspa0000120