Connection Heals Wounds: Feeling Listened to Reduces Speakers’ Loneliness Following a Social Rejection Disclosure

Guy Itzchakov, Netta Weinstein, Dvori Saluk and Moty Amar · 2023 (online 2022)

Five experiments found that attentive, understanding listening reduced immediate loneliness when people discussed or imagined discussing a past rejection.

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Three studies used video, recall or imagined situations; two involved live dialogue. Outcomes were participants’ ratings taken during the experimental session, without later follow-up. The findings do not establish lasting relief from loneliness, and the mediation analyses do not prove the proposed mechanisms.

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    Which parts of the practice do the work: present-moment attention, disclosure, or hearing how you affect others?

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Itzchakov, G., Weinstein, N., Saluk, D., & Amar, M. (2023). Connection Heals Wounds: Feeling Listened to Reduces Speakers’ Loneliness Following a Social Rejection Disclosure. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 49(8), 1273–1294. https://doi.org/10.1177/01461672221100369