Books

Books that help you notice what happens in a circle, though none of them is about Circling.

Read a few pages, take one question into a circle, and come back to the text after something has complicated it. For a first three: Buber, Gendlin and Bohm.

Adjacent practices3

  1. 1951
    Gestalt Therapy: Excitement and Growth in the Human Personality

    Perls et al. · Demanding

    The founding text of Gestalt therapy, which Circling’s own histories name among the practice’s roots. Its starting point is contact: what we experience arises where a person meets their surroundings.

  2. 1978
    Focusing

    Gendlin · Accessible

    For contact with your own experience: the “felt sense”, an unclear bodily sense of a whole situation from which more precise meaning can emerge.

  3. 1996
    On Dialogue

    Bohm · Accessible

    For noticing how a group creates meaning and gets stuck: suspending assumptions so they can be examined rather than defended or suppressed.

Background5

  1. 1923
    I and Thou

    Buber · Moderate

    The best first book on what it means to meet someone: relating to a person as a “Thou” rather than as an object of knowledge or use.

  2. 1927
    Being and Time

    Heidegger · Demanding

    Changes how you understand experience, relationship and authenticity. Being-with, solicitude and attunement give a vocabulary for what happens in a circle.

    A way in: Being-in-the-World · Dreyfus · Moderate

  3. 1945
    Phenomenology of Perception

    Merleau-Ponty · Demanding

    For a deeper understanding of embodiment: how our bodily involvement in the world underlies perception and experience.

  4. 1970
    The Sovereignty of Good

    Murdoch · Moderate

    For the quality of your attention: how self-concern and fantasy get in the way of seeing others clearly, and how attention can become an ethical discipline.

  5. 1982
    Ethics and Infinity: Conversations with Philippe Nemo

    Levinas · Moderate

    For respect for another person’s otherness: the other exceeds our ability to comprehend them, and calls us into responsibility.